My Place Is Not In The Kitchen

In Nigeria, being able to cook is a skill a young girl or woman should possess because not only does it signify good home training but it also better prepares the female for when she will one day become a mother and a wife. It is a source of pride for a woman to possess [...]

Obalende Suya

First thing first, what’s suya? Obalende? Where's that? Suya is like an “African barbecue” where fresh meat parts (could be chicken or beef) is roasted on an open fire with lots of spices and pepper (especially pepper), chopped up and wrapped in newspaper with extra pepper plus fresh onions! Woop woop! When not chopped up, [...]

"Gym" and I, It’s Complicated…

Dear Miss L.A.J.A,The gym and I have this on and off relationship. I don’t know why… I know he’s good for me but it’s hard trying to stay together. When things are good, we don’t spend time together as much but when things are bad, we’re best of friends… I’ll leave our relationship status as [...]